10th Ramadan - The demise of Hazrat Khadijah-tul-Kubra (SA)
By: Fakhar-ul- Hassan
In the Name of Allah, the Compassionate, the Merciful
'And find you in want and make you to be free from want (through
Khadija's wealth)' (Al-Quran).
Hazrat Khadija (SA), the wife, the companion and the friend of Muhammad
Mustafa (PBUH), the Messenger of Allah, and the benefactress of Islam and the
Muslims, fell ill. Her illness was brief and fatal. All her life she had
lived in the midst of abundance and luxury but the three years of exile had
been a time of excessive austerity for her, which inevitably took its toll.
She was the first woman to declare that the Creator was One, and that
Muhammad (PBUH) was His Messenger. The glory and honor of being the first
woman believer in the whole world, is hers to all eternity.
"Islam did not rise except through Ali (AS)'s sword and Khadija (SA)'s
wealth," (Hadith). When Islam came under mounting pressure from its enemies,
Khadija (SA) sacrificed her comforts, her wealth and her home for it; and now
it would appear that she sacrificed her life too, in the way of Islam.
Without a doubt, if she had lived in her palatial house in Makkah, surrounded
by her maidservants, she might have lived for many more years. But she
preferred to stand by her husband and his clan, and to share the hardships of
life with them. During the siege, she had to endure not only the pangs of
hunger and thirst but also the extremes of heat in summer and cold in winter;
yet she never complained to her husband about them. Whether times were good
or bad, whether she had plenty or she had nothing, she was always cheerful.
Austerity and privation never soured her. It was this temperament that was an
unfailing source of comfort, courage and strength for her husband during the
blackest and trying moments of his life.
Hazrat Muhammad Mustafa (SAW) never took another wife as long as Khadija (SA)
lived. Lady Khadijah (PBUH) was not just an ordinary wife for Prophet
Muhammad (PBUH&HP), as she occupied a special place in his heart due to her
sacrifices. Thus, whenever appropriate, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) would
reiterate her virtues after her demise.
Once Aisha (RA), daughter of Hazrat Abubakr (RA), got agitated and said: "Why
do you constantly praise her when she was just an old Arab woman, while Allah
has granted you (a wife) better than her?"
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), the symbol of patience and tolerance, was deeply
hurt and angered by her words. He replied:
"No! Allah has never granted me (a wife) better than her. When all the people
denied my prophetic mission, it was Khadijah who believed me. In the times
when the people disbelieved my words, it was Khadijah who called me the
truthful. In the times when people besieged me in financial difficulty, it
was Khadijah who helped me with her wealth. And it was her who brought a
child like Fatimah (PBUH) …"
Hazrat Khadija (SA) died on the 10th of Ramadan, 619 AD. During Khadija (SA)'s
last days, she was confined to bed. One day the Prophet of Allah (S) said to
"What you are encountering, is because of us Khadija; when you meet your
peers send my Salam to them!"
Khadija (SA) questioned: "Who are they; O Prophet of Allah?"
He answered: "Maryam Bint Imran, Kalthum (Musa's sister), and Assia-Pharaoh's
She then said: "May you live in harmony and have sons, O Prophet of Allah."
The Messenger of Allah used to say: "I was commanded to give Khadija the good
news of a dwelling in Paradise made of brocade where there is neither
clamoring nor strain." (Masnad Ahmad)
Ibn Al-Athir said that the brocade mentioned in this tradition, is
palace-like hallow pearls.
Lady Khadija (SA) was once crying in the presence of Asma Bint Umais, who
said to her:
"Why are you crying while you are the Mistress of all women, and the
Prophet's wife, who will enter Paradise as he has said?"
Khadija (SA) replied: "l am not crying (for fear of death), rather, I am
crying because every woman needs a close friend on her wedding to help her in
certain issues; Fatima is still very young and I am afraid that she will be
alone on her wedding!"
Asma said: "O my mistress, I vow to you, by Allah, that if I am alive then, I
will take your place..."
The final words of Lady Khadijah (PBUH) before her death were not of less
value than all the difficulties she had faced in the way of Prophet Muhammad
(PBUH). Lady Khadijah (SA) told Prophet Muhammad (PBUH):
"O Messenger of Allah! I was negligent of you, and I did not accomplish what
you deserved. Forgive me, and if there is something I can wish for now, it is
Uttering her last words, she took her final breaths full of faith and humble…
She was shrouded in the cloak of her weeping husband and buried at Houjoon in
the Jannat al-Mu’alla Cemetery (which alas was desecrated and destroyed by
the Saudi Arabian authorities in 1925), the Messenger of Allah stepped down
into her grave to bless it. Meanwhile, Fatima (SA) kept close to her father
and asked him:
"Messenger of Allah, where is my Mother?"
At that point, Gabriel descended and revealed the following to the Prophet
"Your Lord commands you to inform Fatima (SA) that He sends His blessings
upon her and says: Your Mother is in a house of brocade, its corners are made
of gold, and its poles are of rubies. It is located between Assia's
(Pharaoh's wife) and Maryam Bint Imran's houses."
Fatima (SA) then said: "Surely Allah is As-Salam, and peace is from Him and
Another mournful event that inflicted the Prophet was his uncle and guardian
Hazrat Abu Talib (AS)’s death.
These two tragic events had a great effect on the messenger's life; the death
of Abu Talib (AS) caused the Prophet (PBUH) to immigrate to Medina, for he
had lost the strongest supporter and advocate of the religion from among his
uncles. The deaths of two friends - Khadija (SA) and Abu Talib (AS), - were
the greatest shocks that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) had to endure in the
fifty years of his life. The two lamps of their glorious lives were
extinguished. He was overwhelmed with sorrow. He called the year of their
death as, "The Year of Sorrow" (Aam-ul-Huzn).
better than wealth because it protects you while you have to
guard wealth. it decreases if you keep on spending it but the
more you make use of knowledge ,the more it increases . what you
get through wealth disappears as soon as wealth disappears but
what you achieve through knowledge will remain even after you."MORE